Do You Feel Like A LOSER With Women?
A question I get asked a lot is: “Am I a loser if I have to learn how to pick up women?”
This is a question I hate to hear.
The reason I hate to hear it is because I hate that the question even exists.
We have a notion in this world that we must go to school and get a good education so we can be successful in life.
But I find, more often than not, the most important skills to learn are not only ignored by our schools and society at large, but actively shunned.
Things like dating, sex, and finances – arguably three of the most important things in life – are completely overlooked in the development of human beings.
Is it any wonder we have so many cases of depression, anxiety, loneliness, divorce, sexual dysfunction, and debt in the world?
Often, we are left to our own devices to learn these skills on our own, through trial and error. Some succeed at it, but most do not. The people who don’t succeed in learning them on their own get caught in a vicious cycle where bad behaviors are re-enforced and skills stagnate instead of develop.
Healthy relationships are VITAL to living a happy life. Nothing can compare to the company of a good woman you love. In the end, I think that’s all any man wants. The world could end tomorrow, and all we’d want today is to find solace in our lover’s arms.
But instead of being taught correctly by society on how to be happy, we are made to feel guilty about our desires, about sex, about dating. We’re taught the wrong way to do things – things that might have worked 100 to 1,000 years ago, but are useless today.
We still try to win affection with gifts, even though we know that is a waste of a great deal of time and effort.
We obsess over our looks, even though we can’t really change who we are.
We obsess over what kind of car we drive, what kind of clothes we wear, and how our hair is styled, even though what’s in fashion today can easily fall out of fashion tomorrow.
But there are skills that are effective, proven to work, and have stood the test of time. They are skills that only 10% of the world’s male population know and make use of – but none of them teach.
It is true that I believe 90% of the men in this world completely lack the skills necessary to be truly happy with their relationships. Some settle for what they can get. Some get lucky. Some struggle for years to find a mate. Some never find one.
To think you are a loser for seeking out help with your love life is false. Knowing you’re not happy and seeking help to fix that is smart. It’s healthy. But above all, it’s necessary.
You would not think there was something wrong with you if you sought out help learning to read, or do math, or fix a car, or build a house.
But so many people think that learning to do something as vital to your happiness as finding a good woman they can love and who loves them back means there’s something wrong with them! That they’re a loser, or a failure.
That is just, plain, WRONG.
The very fact that you’re reading this website right now says a lot about you. It says you’re willing to change, to start developing your skills in relationships with women so you can find true happiness.
There is nothing shameful in that. In fact, it is the first step to a successful and happy life. I'd encourage you to explore this website and discover everything we have to offer - some of the best information available for successfully meeting, dating, and attracting the women you desire. We don't teach you how to "lie" or "trick" women into liking you. Instead, we share with you powerful and proven methods for getting results that make both you AND the woman you are with happy.
These are not skills taught in school. They are not the lame gimmicks you see in TV and movies. They are not based off of luck or advice from others who know nothing of what they are talking about. Everything we share with you on this website has been tested numerous times by men from around the world, and proven to get amazing results.
MeetWomen.com is dedicated to empowering men, and showing them how they can stop feeling guilty and ashamed of their desires, and how they can find the women they want to live a happy and fulfilling life. Thank you for visiting, and I hope you enjoy the site.