Three Deadly Mistakes That Men Make in Seduction

Author: James Lockwood

There are common mistakes that men make when they interact with women. Unfortunately, most are never aware of these mistakes, and continue to make them. Here are three deadly mistakes to watch out for.

1. Becoming an interviewer

When you start to interact with your target, don't bombard her with questions. This would make her feel as if she is in a job interview, which is not fun. This instantaneously kills attraction and sets you off a bad start.

Realize that you are in the 'interviewer' mode when you ask three questions in a row. To avoid this mistake, be conscious about the questions that you ask. It is fine to ask questions such as "Where do you live?" but after every question, tell her an interesting anecdote about yourself and take it up from there.

Bottom line - never ask more than two consecutive questions which are seemingly unrelated to each other.

2. Having 'defensive' body language

We have all seen this before - men walking around in bars with a drink in their hands. Any loser who is not good with women uses a bottle as a 'defense mechanism' because they are not comfortable naturally. Avoid this.

In addition to looking insecure, a drink in hand also makes it hard for you to use kino when you approach women, which is a major disadvantage.

3. Talking too fast

Most men don't realize this, but when they are nervous, they talk too fast. It is actually pretty easy to overcome this. Just slow down not only your speech, but also your body movement. Naturally, you will also slow down your talking in tandem with the movement of your body.

When you are out approaching women with your wingman, try to ask him to spot you when you speak too fast. Better still, record your approaches and do a debrief after each outing.

These are just three common mistakes that men make when picking up women. For more watchouts and specific tips to make you even more successful with women, be sure to download my "The Seducer's Vault" report, an archive of free videos, audios and books on seduction which is currently available for free at http://TheSeducersVault.com.

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