The Three Keys to Being the Man That Every Woman Wants

Author: James Lockwood

Most men give up their power and control when they meet an attractive woman. They give the woman all their attention by chasing her around, de-prioritizing their own plans to fit into her schedule and reduce their time spent with family and friends. The more attractive the woman is, the higher tendency for the men to do this.

The truth is that women dislike being given this 'power'. A woman find a man who surrenders his power to be less attractive because she is hard wired to want the qualities that a man naturally has. Here are the three keys to being the man that has the power and therefore is more attractive.

Key 1. The man has a purpose.

He knows what he wants in life and works towards his goals. People who just bum around are just plain unattractive. Worse are those who 'give it all up' to be with the woman.

In addition to purpose, also have passions other than women. These are the things that define you, and make women attracted to you in the first place.

Key 2. The man has high status.

In any relationship (whether it is romantic or not), there is status. The person who is perceived to have higher status leads the relationship - they are respected, they make the decisions, and they call the shots. Women are attracted to men who have high status, so be one.

The definitive guide to be a man with high status is David Deida's book, 'The Way of the Superior Man'. There are also free resources in the Internet on this topic. A useful guide is The Seducer's Vault (http://www.TheSeducersVault.com) which compiles the best free audio, video and ebooks on the subject on seduction.

Key 3. The man leads.

Be wary of the questions that you ask a woman. If you find that you ask things such as "Are you free on Saturday?" or "Where do you want to go?” you are giving power away. Be a leader and make the important decisions. Instead of asking if she's going to be free on Saturday, say, "I'm going to the mall to get some boxing gloves this Saturday, so come along."

Practicing these three keys will make you the man that every woman wants. Habitually practice them, and you'll be ahead in your game.

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