Do You Think Meeting Women In Bars & Clubs Is Hard?
When most guys think about “picking up women,” glamorous images of bright lights and hip clubs come to mind. Scenes of attractive women and men bathed in neon light and loud music while dancing, drinking, and having a wild and crazy time are what we see in the movies and TV shows. And when you and your buddies want to go out to meet girls, chances are, you choose to attend some type of bar or nightclub to do so.
The reasons why bars and nightclubs are such popular pick up places are numerous. First, these are places lots of attractive women will visit, so they are “target rich environments.” Second, the presence of alcohol helps people to relax and unwind, but it also helps make women more susceptible to male advances (not to mention helps men gain “liquid courage”). Third, the nature of bars and clubs lends itself to meeting new people, which can help those with poor social lives meet people quicker. Fourth, they can be a lot of fun and a great way to unwind after a stressful day or a long week at work.
However, as anyone who has ever tried to meet women in bars or nightclubs knows, it is not always easy to do so. Bars and nightclubs present their own lists of unique challenges that most guys have very difficult times overcoming.
Here’s How to Meet Women In Bars And Clubs
Some guys who are naturally outgoing and socially savvy have incredible success with meeting women in bars and nightclubs. But “average guys” can seriously struggle with them. You must deal with long lines, parking, waiting lists, loud music, competition from other men, alcohol, drugs, doormen, social stigmas, late hours, logistics, and of course any personal issues that might prevent you from being able to meet and talk to girls. Bars and nightclubs can be highly charged environments which can make picking up women difficult if you do not know how to navigate them properly.
Often times, men who go out to these places looking to have a good time will end up going home sad, frustrated, or angry after a night where they met no women at all, or if they did meet some girls, nothing came of it. Some men might even feel like “failures” because of their inability to meet girls in these venues, and beat themselves up over it, further lowering their confidence and self-esteem.
And although I don’t consider bars and nightclubs the easiest (or best, for that matter) places to meet women in, if you learn a few basic techniques, it can make a dramatic difference in the types of results you can achieve.
This section of the website will outline some of the best proven and tested methods I’ve uncovered for meeting beautiful girls in bars and clubs. If these are venues which you are interested in using to pick up women, then I encourage you to explore this course and use the methods and techniques I’ll give you to achieve your goals. I’ve tested everything I’m going to share with you extensively, and I know these methods work. However, they do require you to be outgoing enough to meet people and disciplined enough to put them into practice.